When I met my wife, we were both 18, and I thought that the deep affection I had for her was love. However, over time I've realised that we are just really good friends. I love her more as a sibling than in a romantic way. I think now that the kids have left home we can both start our lives afresh and look for that true love that might be out there waiting for us. I want this divorce to be amicable as possible for us both so that we can still be friends and parent our adult children together.